FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION BY DESIGN
ANNIE KENDALL
FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION BY DESIGN
Separation can change
so much, so quickly.
Your next step can still be clear.
A calm, practical starting point to help you navigate the first days and weeks of separation with greater clarity, confidence and less overwhelm.
What Am I Supposed to Do Now?
When separation suddenly becomes real, everything can feel urgent, uncertain and completely overwhelming.
The conversations. The money. The children. The house. The decisions. The future.
You do not have to work it all out today.
This First Steps Blueprint will help you understand what matters now, what can wait, and the practical first steps to take — so you can begin moving forward with greater clarity, calm and confidence.
ANNIE KENDALL
FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION BY DESIGN
FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION BY DESIGN
Separation can change
so much, so quickly.
Your next step can still be clear.
A calm, practical starting point to help you navigate the first days and weeks of separation with greater clarity, confidence and less overwhelm.
What Am I Supposed to Do Now?
When separation suddenly becomes real, everything can feel urgent, uncertain and completely overwhelming.
The conversations. The money. The children. The house. The decisions. The future.
You do not have to work it all out today.
This First Steps Blueprint will help you understand what matters now, what can wait, and the practical first steps to take — so you can begin moving forward with greater clarity, calm and confidence.
FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION BY DESIGN
FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION BY DESIGN
Separation
can change
so much,
so quickly.
Your next step
can still be clear.
A calm, practical starting point to help you navigate the first days and weeks of separation with greater clarity, confidence and less overwhelm.
What Am I Supposed to Do Now?
When separation suddenly becomes real, everything can feel urgent, uncertain and completely overwhelming.
The conversations. The money. The children. The house. The decisions. The future.
You do not have to work it all out today.
This First Steps Blueprint will help you understand what matters now, what can wait, and the practical first steps to take — so you can begin moving forward with greater clarity, calm and confidence.
CLARITY · CALM · CONFIDENCE
Your first steps.
By design.
These are your practical first steps through separation — designed to help you steady yourself, avoid costly mistakes and save precious time, money and emotional energy.
Learn how to protect what matters most in the early stages, make more informed decisions and create a stronger starting point for whatever comes next.
I've walked this road, and I've spent years helping thousands of women navigate it too. I've seen the common mistakes, unnecessary costs, wasted time and emotional exhaustion that can make an already difficult process even harder.
Let me share what I've learned — the practical tips, shortcuts and hard-won lessons that can make the journey that little bit easier.
A WELCOME MESSAGE FROM ME.
ANNIE MONROE
CLARITY · CALM · CONFIDENCE
Your first steps.
By design.
A WELCOME MESSAGE FROM ME.
These are your practical first steps through separation — designed to help you steady yourself, avoid costly mistakes and save precious time, money and emotional energy.
Learn how to protect what matters most in the early stages, make more informed decisions and create a stronger starting point for whatever comes next.
I've walked this road, and I've spent years helping thousands of women navigate it too. I've seen the common mistakes, unnecessary costs, wasted time and emotional exhaustion that can make an already difficult process even harder.
Let me share what I've learned — the practical tips, shortcuts and hard-won lessons that can make the journey that little bit easier.
ANNIE MONROE
CLARITY · CALM · CONFIDENCE
CLARITY · CALM · CONFIDENCE
Your first steps.
By design.
These are your practical first steps through separation — designed to help you steady yourself, avoid costly mistakes and save precious time, money and emotional energy.
Learn how to protect what matters most in the early stages, make more informed decisions and create a stronger starting point for whatever comes next.
I've walked this road, and I've spent years helping thousands of women navigate it too. I've seen the common mistakes, unnecessary costs, wasted time and emotional exhaustion that can make an already difficult process even harder.
Let me share what I've learned — the practical tips, shortcuts and hard-won lessons that can make the journey that little bit easier.
ANNIE MONROE
CLARITY · CALM · CONFIDENCE
Your first steps. By design.
A calm, clear start to help you understand what matters now, protect what matters most and move forward one thoughtful step at a time.
THE WAY FORWARD BEGINS WITH KNOWING WHAT MATTERS NOW.
One thoughtful step at a time.
CLARITY
Cut through the overwhelm and understand what matters first.
CALM
Slow things down, steady yourself and take one thoughtful step at a time.
CONFIDENCE
Feel better informed and prepared for the decisions and conversations ahead.
THE WAY FORWARD BEGINS WITH KNOWING WHAT MATTERS NOW.
One thoughtful step at a time.
CLARITY
Cut through the overwhelm and understand what matters first.
CALM
Slow things down, steady yourself and take one thoughtful step at a time.
CONFIDENCE
Feel better informed and prepared for the decisions and conversations ahead.
THE WAY FORWARD BEGINS WITH KNOWING WHAT MATTERS NOW.
One thoughtful step at a time.
CLARITY
Cut through the overwhelm and understand what matters first.
CALM
Slow things down, steady yourself and take one thoughtful step at a time.
CONFIDENCE
Feel better informed and prepared for the decisions and conversations ahead.
Know what to do first
and what can wait.
First Steps of Separation By Design gives you short, supportive lessons and practical resources to help you understand what deserves your attention now — while leaving what can wait for later.
Know what to do first
and what can wait.
First Steps of Separation By Design gives you short, supportive lessons and practical resources to help you understand what deserves your attention now — while leaving what can wait for later.
Know what to do first and what can wait.
First Steps of Separation By Design gives you short, supportive lessons and practical resources to help you understand what deserves your attention now — while leaving what can wait for later.
Everything here is designed to help you take the right first steps.
SAVE TIME & ENERGY
Know what deserves your attention now, so you can focus your time and energy where it matters most.
PROTECT WHAT MATTERS
Take thoughtful early steps to help protect your finances, your children, your wellbeing and your future.
BUILD YOUR FOUNDATION
Get the practical basics in place to make the road ahead easier to navigate.
FEEL SUPPORTED
Have an experienced, reassuring voice beside you, helping you understand what to consider and what may need your attention next.
Everything here is designed to help you
take the right first steps.
SAVE TIME & ENERGY
Know what deserves your attention now, so you can focus your time and energy where it matters most.
PROTECT WHAT MATTERS
Take thoughtful early steps to help protect your finances, your children, your wellbeing and your future.
BUILD YOUR FOUNDATION
Get the practical basics in place to make the road ahead easier to navigate.
FEEL SUPPORTED
Have an experienced, reassuring voice beside you, helping you understand what to consider and what may need your attention next.
Everything here is designed to help you take the right
first steps.
SAVE TIME & ENERGY
Know what deserves your attention now, so you can focus your time and energy where it matters most.
PROTECT WHAT MATTERS
Take thoughtful early steps to help protect your finances, your children, your wellbeing and your future.
BUILD YOUR FOUNDATION
Get the practical basics in place to make the road ahead easier to navigate.
FEEL SUPPORTED
Have an experienced, reassuring voice beside you, helping you understand what to consider and what may need your attention next.
For the first time since everything happened, I felt calm. Instead of trying to solve everything at once, I finally knew what mattered most and what to do next.
- JESSICA, ADELAIDE
For the first time since everything happened, I felt calm. Instead of trying to solve everything at once, I finally knew what mattered most and what to do next.
- JESSICA, ADELAIDE
For the first time since everything happened, I felt calm. Instead of trying to solve everything at once, I finally knew what mattered most and what to do next.
- JESSICA, ADELAIDE
WHAT YOU'LL GET
The things you'll be so glad you knew from the beginning.
Simple, practical guidance to help you navigate the early stages of separation with greater clarity — and avoid some of the costly, stressful and time-consuming mistakes that are so easy to make when you're trying to work everything out at once.
SUPPORT HACKS
Take care of yourself while everything is changing.
Learn what can help in those first overwhelming hours and days, how to navigate the emotional rollercoaster, build the right support around you and recognise when you may need additional help.
LIFE HACKS
Make everyday separation life a little easier to navigate.
Practical guidance around communicating with your separating partner, navigating social media and handling some of the everyday situations that can become unexpectedly complicated — helping you avoid unnecessary conflict, protect your privacy and make more thoughtful choices along the way.
ADMIN HACKS
Get the important, practical pieces in place.
Take some simple early steps to protect your privacy, important information and finances. You’ll learn what may need your attention now, what not to rush into, and when it’s time to seek professional advice.
Knowing what matters now can make all the difference later.
You'll know what deserves your attention now, what can wait, and where professional advice may be important.
WHAT YOU'LL GET
The things you'll be so glad
you knew from the beginning.
Simple, practical guidance to help you navigate the early stages of separation with greater clarity — and avoid some of the costly, stressful and time-consuming mistakes that are so easy to make when you're trying to work everything out at once.
SUPPORT HACKS
Take care of yourself while everything is changing.
Learn what can help in those first overwhelming hours and days, how to navigate the emotional rollercoaster, build the right support around you and recognise when you may need additional help.
LIFE HACKS
Make everyday separation life a little easier to navigate.
Practical guidance around communicating with your separating partner, navigating social media and handling some of the everyday situations that can become unexpectedly complicated — helping you avoid unnecessary conflict, protect your privacy and make more thoughtful choices along the way.
ADMIN HACKS
Get the important, practical pieces in place.
Take some simple early steps to protect your privacy, important information and finances. You’ll learn what may need your attention now, what not to rush into, and when it’s time to seek professional advice.
Knowing what matters now
can make all the difference later.
You'll know what deserves your attention now, what can wait,
and where professional advice may be important.
WHAT YOU'LL GET
The things you'll be so glad
you knew from the beginning.
Simple, practical guidance to help you navigate the early stages of separation with greater clarity — and avoid some of the costly, stressful and time-consuming mistakes that are so easy to make when you're trying to work everything out at once.
SUPPORT HACKS
Take care of yourself while everything is changing.
Learn what can help in those first overwhelming hours and days, how to navigate the emotional rollercoaster, build the right support around you and recognise when you may need additional help.
LIFE HACKS
Make everyday separation life a little easier to navigate.
Practical guidance around communicating with your separating partner, navigating social media and handling some of the everyday situations that can become unexpectedly complicated — helping you avoid unnecessary conflict, protect your privacy and make more thoughtful choices along the way.
ADMIN HACKS
Get the important, practical pieces in place.
Take some simple early steps to protect your privacy, important information and finances. You’ll learn what may need your attention now, what not to rush into, and when it’s time to seek professional advice.
Knowing what matters now can make all the difference later.
You'll know what deserves your attention now, what can wait,
and where professional advice may be important.
HI, I'M ANNIE
I've been where you are.
I know how disorienting, overwhelming and lonely the early days of separation can feel.
Years ago, I was standing exactly where you are now - trying to figure out what to do first, who to trust and how to protect my children and our future.
I didn't have a roadmap. I had to learn everything the hard way.
That experience changed the direction of my life.
Since then, I've dedicated my work to helping women navigate separation with greater clarity, confidence and support.
I've helped thousands of women around the world through informed, practical guidance that makes a real difference.
ANNIE MONROE
Coach & Neuro-Transformational Practitioner
HI, I'M ANNIE
I've been where you are.
I know how disorienting, overwhelming and lonely the early days of separation can feel.
Years ago, I was standing exactly where you are now - trying to figure out what to do first, who to trust and how to protect my children and our future.
I didn't have a roadmap. I had to learn everything the hard way.
That experience changed the direction of my life.
Since then, I've dedicated my work to helping women navigate separation with greater clarity, confidence and support.
I've helped thousands of women around the world through informed, practical guidance that makes a real difference.
ANNIE MONROE
Coach & Neuro-Transformational Practitioner
HI, I'M ANNIE
I've been where you are.
I know how disorienting, overwhelming and lonely the early days of separation can feel.
Years ago, I was standing exactly where you are now - trying to figure out what to do first, who to trust and how to protect my children and our future.
I didn't have a roadmap. I had to learn everything the hard way.
That experience changed the direction of my life.
Since then, I've dedicated my work to helping women navigate separation with greater clarity, confidence and support.
I've helped thousands of women around the world through informed, practical guidance that makes a real difference.
ANNIE MONROE
Coach & Neuro-Transformational Practitioner
I'm here to help you take
the right first steps.
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE
Over a decade supporting women around the world
REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE
I've been through separation and rebuilt my life
THOUSANDS HELPED
Guidance that is practical, compassionate and effective
HERE FOR YOU
A calm, experienced voice beside you
A DIFFERENT TYPE OF SEPARATION SUPPORT
There's more to separation than the legal process.
WHAT I DON'T PROVIDE
Legal and financial advice are important parts of separation. I always recommend seeking personalised advice from appropriately qualified legal and financial professionals.
WHAT I DO PROVIDE
I’m here to help you navigate everything happening around that advice — sharing a proven roadmap, practical tips and hard-won lessons to help you avoid costly mistakes, save precious time, money, protect your wellbeing and spend less energy trying to figure it all out for yourself.
Because getting good legal advice matters.
But so does knowing how to navigate everything happening in between.
MY POINT OF DIFFERENCE
I'm here to help you take
the right first steps.
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE
Over a decade supporting women around the world
REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE
I've been through separation and rebuilt my life
THOUSANDS HELPED
Guidance that is practical, compassionate and effective
HERE FOR YOU
A calm, experienced voice beside you
A DIFFERENT TYPE OF SEPARATION SUPPORT
There's more to separation than the legal process.
WHAT I DON'T PROVIDE
Legal and financial advice are important parts of separation. I always recommend seeking personalised advice from appropriately qualified legal and financial professionals.
WHAT I DO PROVIDE
I’m here to help you navigate everything happening around that advice — sharing a proven roadmap, practical tips and hard-won lessons to help you avoid costly mistakes, save precious time, money, protect your wellbeing and spend less energy trying to figure it all out for yourself.
Because getting good legal advice matters.
But so does knowing how to navigate everything happening in between.
MY POINT OF DIFFERENCE
I'm here to help you take the right first steps.
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE
Over a decade supporting women around the world
REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE
I've been through separation and rebuilt my life
THOUSANDS HELPED
Guidance that is practical, grounded and effective
HERE FOR YOU
A calm, experienced voice beside you
A DIFFERENT TYPE OF SEPARATION SUPPORT
There's more to separation than the legal process.
WHAT I DON'T PROVIDE
Legal and financial advice are important parts of separation. I always recommend seeking personalised advice from appropriately qualified legal and financial professionals.
WHAT I DO PROVIDE
I’m here to help you navigate everything happening around that advice — sharing a proven roadmap, practical tips and hard-won lessons to help you avoid costly mistakes, save precious time, money, protect your wellbeing and spend less energy trying to figure it all out for yourself.
Because getting good legal advice matters.
But so does knowing how to navigate everything happening in between.
EVERYTHING INCLUDED FOR $37
Everything you need to take
your first thoughtful steps.
15 short lessons, 6 carefully structured modules and 12 practical resources - designed to help you understand what matters now, what can wait and what your next thoughtful step could be.
6
MODULES
·
15
LESSONS
·
12
RESOURCES
·
INSTANT ACCESS
EVERYTHING INCLUDED FOR $37
Everything you need to take
your first thoughtful steps.
15 short lessons, 6 carefully structured modules and 12 practical resources - designed to help you understand what matters now, what can wait and what your next thoughtful step could be.
6
MODULES
·
15
LESSONS
·
12
RESOURCES
·
INSTANT ACCESS
EVERYTHING INCLUDED FOR $37
Everything you need to take
your first thoughtful steps.
15 short lessons, 6 carefully structured modules and 12 practical resources - designed to help you understand what matters now, what can wait and what your next thoughtful step could be.
YOUR FIRST STEPS TOOLKIT
Short, supportive
video lessons
Practical
downloads
Step-by-step
guidance
Support for the
early days.
Communication
guidance.
Guidance for
your children.
YOUR FIRST STEPS TOOLKIT
Short, supportive
video lessons
Practical
downloads
Step-by-step
guidance
Support for the
early days.
Communication
guidance.
Guidance for
your children.
YOUR FIRST STEPS
TOOLBOX
video lessons
downloads
guidance
early days
guidance
your children
LET'S DIVE DEEPER
Six simple stages to help you
find your way forward.
You can begin with what you need most right now and move through the rest in your own time
START HERE
Understand how to use First Steps and where to begin.
STEADY YOURSELF
Support for the first hours, days and emotional ups and downs
The First 24 Hours
Surviving Week One
The Emotional Rollercoaster
FIND SAFETY & SUPPORT
Recognise when extra support may be needed and begin building the right people around you.
Family & Domestic Violence
Building Your Immediate Support Circle
PROTECT THE ESSENTIALS
Simple early steps around your privacy, money and practical wellbeing.
Divorce-Proof Your Tech
Important To-Do's
Protecting Your Money
How to Find the Right Lawyer
PROTECT THE CHILDREN & COMMUNICATION
Thoughtful guidance for difficult conversations with your children and your separating partner.
Breaking the News of Divorce to Your Children
Best Practice for Communicating With Your Separating Partner
KNOW WHAT COMES NEXT
Understand what deserves your attention now and what can wait.
There is no need to race through it.
Start where you are. Take what you need. Come back whenever you're ready.
LET'S DIVE DEEPER
Six simple stages to help you
find your way forward.
You can begin with what you need most right now and move through the rest in your own time
START HERE
Understand how to use First Steps and where to begin.
STEADY YOURSELF
Support for the first hours, days and emotional ups and downs
The First 24 Hours
Surviving Week One
The Emotional Rollercoaster
FIND SAFETY & SUPPORT
Recognise when extra support may be needed and begin building the right people around you.
Family & Domestic Violence
Building Your Immediate Support Circle
PROTECT THE ESSENTIALS
Simple early steps around your privacy, money and practical wellbeing.
Divorce-Proof Your Tech
Important To-Do's
Protecting Your Money
How to Find the Right Lawyer for You
PROTECT THE CHILDREN & COMMUNICATION
Thoughtful guidance for difficult conversations with your children and your separating partner.
Breaking the News of Divorce to Your Children
Communicating With Your Separating Partner
KNOW WHAT COMES NEXT
Understand what deserves your attention now and what can wait.
There is no need to race through it.
Start where you are. Take what you need. Come back whenever you're ready.
LET'S DIVE DEEPER
Six simple stages to help you
find your way forward.
You can begin with what you need most right now and move through the rest in your own time
STEADY YOURSELF
Support for the first hours, days and emotional ups and downs
The First 24 Hours
Surviving Week One
The Emotional Rollercoaster
FIND SAFETY & SUPPORT
Recognise when extra support may be needed and begin building the right people around you.
Building Your Immediate Support Circle
Family & Domestic Violence
PROTECT THE ESSENTIALS
Simple early steps around your privacy, money and practical wellbeing.
Divorce-Prood Your Tech
Important To-Do's
Protecting Your Money
How to Find the Right Lawyer for You
PROTECT THE CHILDREN & COMMUNICATION
Thoughtful guidance for difficult conversations with your children and your separating partner.
Breaking the News To Your Children
Best Practise for Communicating with Your Separating Spouse
There is no need to race through it.
Start where you are. Take what you need. Come back whenever you're ready.
After 34 years of marriage, I honestly had no idea where to begin. This helped me slow everything down, understand what needed my attention and feel like I could actually handle what came next.
- PAM, FLORIDA
After 34 years of marriage, I honestly had no idea where to begin. This helped me slow everything down, understand what needed my attention and feel like I could actually handle what came next.
- PAM, FLORIDA
After 34 years of marriage, I honestly had no idea where to begin. This helped me slow everything down, understand what needed my attention and feel like I could actually handle what came next.
- PAM, FLORIDA
PRACTICAL RESOURCES
12 practical resources
to use when you need them most.
Thoughtfully created worksheets, checklists and guides to help you take clear, calm action - one step at a time.
PRACTICAL + EASY TO USE
Clear, calm resources you can use in the first hours, days and weeks.
USE WHAT YOU NEED
Dip in and out as your journey unfolds.
There's no need to do it all at once.
CREATED WITH CARE
Designed to support you, not overwhelm you. Simple, supportive and easy to follow.
YOURS TO KEEP
Download, save and return to anytime you need extra guideance.
Your downloads include
Start where you are. Take what you need. Come back whenever you're ready.
1 - Your Quick-Start Guide (pdf)
2 -The First 24 Hours Checklist (pdf)
3 - My Week One Support Page (pdf)
4 - My Emotional Check-In (pdf)
5 - My Immediate Support Circle (pdf)
6 - Safety Support (pdf)
7 - Digital Safety Check (pdf)
8 - Important To-Do's Checklist (pdf)
9 - The First Financial Safety Check (pdf)
10 - Preparing to Tell the Children (pdf)
11 - Pause Before You Send (pdf)
12 - My Next thoughtful Step (pdf)
BONUS - How to Choose the Right Legal Professional (pdf Workbook)
PRACTICAL RESOURCES
12 practical resources
to use when you need them most.
Thoughtfully created worksheets, checklists and guides to help you take clear, calm action - one step at a time.
PRACTICAL + EASY TO USE
Clear, calm resources you can use in the first hours, days and weeks.
USE WHAT YOU NEED
Dip in and out as your journey unfolds.
There's no need to do it all at once.
CREATED WITH CARE
Designed to support you, not overwhelm you. Simple, supportive and easy to follow.
YOURS TO KEEP
Download, save and return to anytime you need extra guideance.
Your downloads include...
Start where you are. Take what you need. Come back whenever you're ready.
1 - Your Quick-Start Guide (pdf)
2 -The First 24 Hours Checklist (pdf)
3 - My Week One Support Page (pdf)
4 - My Emotional Check-In (pdf)
5 - My Immediate Support Circle (pdf)
6 - Safety Support (pdf)
7 - Digital Safety Check (pdf)
8 - Important To-Do's Checklist (pdf)
9 - The First Financial Safety Check (pdf)
10 - Preparing to Tell the Children (pdf)
11 - Pause Before You Send (pdf)
12 - My Next thoughtful Step (pdf)
BONUS - How to Choose the Right Legal Professional (pdf Workbook)
PRACTICAL RESOURCES
12 practical resources
to use when you need them most.
Thoughtfully created worksheets, checklists and guides to help you take clear, calm action - one step at a time.
PRACTICAL + EASY TO USE
Clear, calm resources you can use in the first hours, days and weeks.
USE WHAT YOU NEED
Dip in and out as your journey unfolds.
There's no need to do it all at once.
CREATED WITH CARE
Designed to support you, not overwhelm you. Simple, supportive and easy to follow.
YOURS TO KEEP
Download, save and return to anytime you need extra guideance.
Your downloads include...
1 - Your Quick-Start Guide (pdf)
2 -The First 24 Hours Checklist (pdf)
3 - My Week One Support Page (pdf)
4 - My Emotional Check-In (pdf)
5 - My Immediate Support Circle (pdf)
6 - Safety Support (pdf)
7 - Digital Safety Check (pdf)
8 - Important To-Do's Checklist (pdf)
9 - The First Financial Safety Check (pdf)
10 - Preparing to Tell the Children (pdf)
11 - Pause Before You Send (pdf)
12 - My Next thoughtful Step (pdf)
BONUS - How to Choose the Right Legal Professional (pdf Workbook)
Start where you are. Take what you need. Come back whenever you're ready.
WORDS FROM SOMEONE WHO'S BEEN THERE
" I almost didn't buy it, but I'm so glad I did.
I felt completely overwhelmed and unsure where to start, until I found this. It’s like having a calm, trusted friend in your corner who gently shows you what to do, when to do it, and how to protect your peace every step of the way. It didn’t just help me cope, it helped me protect my money, feel more informed and create a better outcome for myself and my kids."
- LAUREN, LEEDS
WORDS FROM SOMEONE WHO'S BEEN THERE
" I almost didn't buy it, but I'm so glad I did.
I felt completely overwhelmed and unsure where to start, until I found this. It’s like having a calm, trusted friend in your corner who gently shows you what to do, when to do it, and how to protect your peace every step of the way. It didn’t just help me cope, it helped me protect my money, feel more informed and create a better outcome for myself and my kids."
- LAUREN, LEEDS
WORDS FROM SOMEONE WHO'S BEEN THERE
" I almost didn't buy it, but I'm so glad I did.
I felt completely overwhelmed and unsure where to start, until I found this. It’s like having a calm, trusted friend in your corner who gently shows you what to do, when to do it, and how to protect your peace every step of the way. It didn’t just help me cope, it helped me protect my money, feel more informed and create a better outcome for myself and my kids."
- LAUREN, LEEDS
READY TO GET STARTED?
Get everything inside First Steps
for just $37.
Separation can become expensive in more ways than one - financially, emotionally and in the time and energy it takes from your life.
First Steps of Separation By Design is $37 because getting helpful information early shouldn't feel like another overwhelming decision.
For one simple payment, you'll have immediate access to the short video lessons and practical resources I've just shown, so you can begin where you are and move through them at your own pace.
FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION
6 MODULES
·
15 LESSONS
·
12 PRACTICAL RESOURCES
$37 USD
One-time payment
·
Instant access
READY TO GET STARTED?
Get everything inside First Steps
for just $37.
Separation can become expensive in more ways than one - financially, emotionally and in the time and energy it takes from your life.
First Steps of Separation By Design is $37 because getting helpful information early shouldn't feel like another overwhelming decision.
For one simple payment, you'll have immediate access to the short video lessons and practical resources I've just shown, so you can begin where you are and move through them at your own pace.
FIRST STEPS OF SEPARATION
6 MODULES
·
15 LESSONS
·
12 PRACTICAL RESOURCES
$37 USD
One-time payment
·
Instant access
READY TO GET STARTED?
Get everything inside First Steps
for just $37.
Separation can become expensive in more ways than one - financially, emotionally and in the time and energy it takes from your life.
First Steps of Separation By Design is $37 because getting helpful information early shouldn't feel like another overwhelming decision.
For one simple payment, you'll have immediate access to the short video lessons and practical resources I've just shown, so you can begin where you are and move through them at your own pace.
YOUR FIRST STEPS
OF SEPARATION
·
6 MODULES
15 LESSONS
12 PRACTICAL RESOURCES
·
$37 USD
Instant access · One-time payment
YOUR PURCHASE IS PROTECTED
A full year to decide
if it's right for you.
I want you to feel comfortable taking this first step.
If you purchase First Steps of Separation By Design and decide it isn't right for you, simply contact us within 365 days of your purchase and we'll refund your $37.
No complicated process. No risk. Just a full year to decide.
YOUR PURCHASE IS PROTECTED
A full year to decide if it's right for you.
I want you to feel comfortable taking this first step.
If you purchase First Steps of Separation By Design and decide it isn't right for you, simply contact us within 365 days of your purchase and we'll refund your $37.
No complicated process. No risk. Just a full year to decide.
YOUR PURCHASE IS PROTECTED
A full year to decide if it's right for you.
I want you to feel comfortable
taking this first step.
If you purchase First Steps of Separation By Design and decide it isn't right for you, simply contact us within 365 days of your purchase and we'll refund your $37.
No complicated process. No risk.
Just a full year to decide.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
A few things you may be wondering.
Here are some common questions about First Steps of Separation By Design.
Is this for me?
If separation is part of your life right now — whether you're thinking about it, it's just happened, or you're already navigating your way through it — yes.
First Steps covers the practical foundations that can help at almost any stage: protecting what matters, communicating with your ex, supporting your children, looking after yourself and making more informed decisions about what comes next.
Even if you've already taken some of these steps, there will likely be things here that can make the road ahead easier.
What if I'm already well into my separation?
You haven't missed the boat.
You may already know or have done some of what we cover, but other lessons can be useful at almost any stage — particularly communicating with your separating partner, supporting your children, protecting your privacy and finances, and understanding what to focus on next.
And because First Steps is the foundation of the By Design journey, it will also help prepare you for the deeper tools and support available as you move forward.
I'm overwhelmed. Is this going to give me even more to do?
No — quite the opposite.
Everything has been deliberately designed to make this stage feel simpler, not heavier. The lessons are short, the guidance is practical and you can take what you need now and leave the rest until later.
You don't need to do everything. You just need somewhere clear to start.
Is this legal or financial advice?
No. I’m not a lawyer or financial adviser, and this course does not provide legal or financial advice.
Legal and financial advice can be incredibly important during separation, and I always recommend seeking personalised guidance from appropriately qualified legal and financial professionals for your individual circumstances.
What I help with is everything happening around that professional advice — the practical and emotional side of separation, including important early information to think about, ways to prepare so you can use your professional support more effectively, thoughtful communication with your separating partner, and the everyday decisions that can otherwise feel incredibly overwhelming.
My role is to help you feel more informed, prepared and supported, so you can make better use of the professional advice you receive and navigate the early stages with greater clarity and confidence.
Does it matter where I live?
Not at all.
Laws and legal processes differ around the world, which is exactly why personalised professional advice matters. But so much of the life happening around separation is universal.
Protecting what matters. Communicating carefully. Supporting your children. Looking after yourself. Avoiding unnecessary mistakes. Knowing what to think about next.
The practical guidance and time, money and sanity-saving hacks inside have been designed to help you wherever in the world you call home.
What happens when I purchase?
You'll receive your login details by email and get immediate access to the members portal.
Everything is waiting for you there, including the lessons and downloadable resources. You can start straight away and move through everything entirely at your own pace.
Access the course on your computer through the link in your login email, or download the GoKollab app from the App Store or Google Play for easy access on your phone when you're on the go.
What if I don't have much time?
That's exactly why the lessons are short.
You don't need a free weekend, a colour-coded notebook or another enormous project to tackle. Watch a lesson, take the next useful step and come back when you're ready.
This was designed for real life — including the messy kind.
What if I buy it and it's not right for me?
You have a full 365 days to decide.
If you decide it isn't right for you, simply contact my team within 365 days of purchase and we'll refund your $37.
No risk. A whole year to decide.
WHEN YOU'RE READY
You only need to know what matters next.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
A few things you may be wondering.
Here are some common questions about First Steps of Separation By Design.
Is this for me?
If separation is part of your life right now — whether you're thinking about it, it's just happened, or you're already navigating your way through it — yes.
First Steps covers the practical foundations that can help at almost any stage: protecting what matters, communicating with your ex, supporting your children, looking after yourself and making more informed decisions about what comes next.
Even if you've already taken some of these steps, there will likely be things here that can make the road ahead easier.
What if I'm already well into my separation?
You haven't missed the boat.
You may already know or have done some of what we cover, but other lessons can be useful at almost any stage — particularly communicating with your separating partner, supporting your children, protecting your privacy and finances, and understanding what to focus on next.
And because First Steps is the foundation of the By Design journey, it will also help prepare you for the deeper tools and support available as you move forward.
I'm overwhelmed. Is this going to give me even more to do?
No — quite the opposite.
Everything has been deliberately designed to make this stage feel simpler, not heavier. The lessons are short, the guidance is practical and you can take what you need now and leave the rest until later.
You don't need to do everything. You just need somewhere clear to start.
Is this legal or financial advice?
No. I’m not a lawyer or financial adviser, and this course does not provide legal or financial advice.
Legal and financial advice can be incredibly important during separation, and I always recommend seeking personalised guidance from appropriately qualified legal and financial professionals for your individual circumstances.
What I help with is everything happening around that professional advice — the practical and emotional side of separation, including important early information to think about, ways to prepare so you can use your professional support more effectively, thoughtful communication with your separating partner, and the everyday decisions that can otherwise feel incredibly overwhelming.
My role is to help you feel more informed, prepared and supported, so you can make better use of the professional advice you receive and navigate the early stages with greater clarity and confidence.
Does it matter where I live?
Not at all.
Laws and legal processes differ around the world, which is exactly why personalised professional advice matters. But so much of the life happening around separation is universal.
Protecting what matters. Communicating carefully. Supporting your children. Looking after yourself. Avoiding unnecessary mistakes. Knowing what to think about next.
The practical guidance and time, money and sanity-saving hacks inside have been designed to help you wherever in the world you call home.
What happens when I purchase?
You'll receive your login details by email and get immediate access to the members portal.
Everything is waiting for you there, including the lessons and downloadable resources. You can start straight away and move through everything entirely at your own pace.
Access the course on your computer through the link in your login email, or download the GoKollab app from the App Store or Google Play for easy access on your phone when you're on the go.
What if I don't have much time?
That's exactly why the lessons are short.
You don't need a free weekend, a colour-coded notebook or another enormous project to tackle. Watch a lesson, take the next useful step and come back when you're ready.
This was designed for real life — including the messy kind.
What if I buy it and it's not right for me?
You have a full 365 days to decide.
If you decide it isn't right for you, simply contact my team within 365 days of purchase and we'll refund your $37.
No risk. A whole year to decide.
WHEN YOU'RE READY
You only need to know
what matters next.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
A few things you may be wondering.
Here are some common questions about First Steps of Separation By Design.
Is this for me?
If separation is part of your life right now — whether you're thinking about it, it's just happened, or you're already navigating your way through it — yes.
First Steps covers the practical foundations that can help at almost any stage: protecting what matters, communicating with your ex, supporting your children, looking after yourself and making more informed decisions about what comes next.
Even if you've already taken some of these steps, there will likely be things here that can make the road ahead easier.
What if I'm already well into my separation?
You haven't missed the boat.
You may already know or have done some of what we cover, but other lessons can be useful at almost any stage — particularly communicating with your separating partner, supporting your children, protecting your privacy and finances, and understanding what to focus on next.
And because First Steps is the foundation of the By Design journey, it will also help prepare you for the deeper tools and support available as you move forward.
I'm overwhelmed. Is this going to give me even more to do?
No — quite the opposite.
Everything has been deliberately designed to make this stage feel simpler, not heavier. The lessons are short, the guidance is practical and you can take what you need now and leave the rest until later.
You don't need to do everything. You just need somewhere clear to start.
Is this legal or financial advice?
No. I’m not a lawyer or financial adviser, and this course does not provide legal or financial advice.
Legal and financial advice can be incredibly important during separation, and I always recommend seeking personalised guidance from appropriately qualified legal and financial professionals for your individual circumstances.
What I help with is everything happening around that professional advice — the practical and emotional side of separation, including important early information to think about, ways to prepare so you can use your professional support more effectively, thoughtful communication with your separating partner, and the everyday decisions that can otherwise feel incredibly overwhelming.
My role is to help you feel more informed, prepared and supported, so you can make better use of the professional advice you receive and navigate the early stages with greater clarity and confidence.
Does it matter where I live?
Not at all.
Laws and legal processes differ around the world, which is exactly why personalised professional advice matters. But so much of the life happening around separation is universal.
Protecting what matters. Communicating carefully. Supporting your children. Looking after yourself. Avoiding unnecessary mistakes. Knowing what to think about next.
The practical guidance and time, money and sanity-saving hacks inside have been designed to help you wherever in the world you call home.
What happens when I purchase?
You'll receive your login details by email and get immediate access to the members portal.
Everything is waiting for you there, including the lessons and downloadable resources. You can start straight away and move through everything entirely at your own pace.
Access the course on your computer through the link in your login email, or download the GoKollab app from the App Store or Google Play for easy access on your phone when you're on the go.
What if I don't have much time?
That's exactly why the lessons are short.
You don't need a free weekend, a colour-coded notebook or another enormous project to tackle. Watch a lesson, take the next useful step and come back when you're ready.
This was designed for real life — including the messy kind.
What if I buy it and it's not right for me?
You have a full 365 days to decide.
If you decide it isn't right for you, simply contact my team within 365 days of purchase and we'll refund your $37.
No risk. A whole year to decide.
WHEN YOU'RE READY
You only need to know what matters next.
